Portrait of an Old Friend

In the top floor of a damp old warehouse along Seattle's waterfront, the fall of 1983 was alive with sound. The air buzzed as Rick Parashar sat behind the keys, his brother Raj humming while searching for the perfect melody, Colin on guitar, and Ben on bass. These guys had been playing together for nearly a decade—since middle school—and I was stepping into their territory. Little did I know that this audition to be their drummer for "Fire and Faster" would catapult me into the orbit of one of the most creative souls I’d ever encounter.

Rick Parashar

Rick helped define the grunge sound. He crafted records that weren’t just multi-platinum hits but cultural icons. From Pearl Jam’s "Ten" to Alice in Chains’ "Sap", and my personal favorite, "Temple of the Dog," Rick helped transform the raw angst of Seattle into anthems that resonated across the globe. He molded something enduring—something that connected generations.

Sadly, Rick passed away suddenly in the late summer of 2014. He was an artist in the truest sense, and his medium was music. It was tragic and shocking—he was so young, barely 50 years old. There are days when I miss him deeply.

Producers like Rick are rarely acknowledged; their names are often tucked away in liner notes. Yet their influence is everywhere—in the songs that become the soundtracks to our lives, in the memories those melodies stir, and in the creative risks they inspire.

Take a moment to honor the friends and mentors whose lives and work have profoundly shaped us. Share their stories. Keep their legacies alive.

Robert Olding

Growing up in Southwestern Idaho, I had a great love for all things creative and was generally thought of as an all around weird kid. My access to the arts and culture were limited mostly to a TV, my dad’s audio cassette deck, and an upright piano. I managed to keep busy by enlisting my five brothers and sisters to star in my various attempts at film making. My version of Grease is legendary amongst a handful of people living in Idaho.

I pursued music as a vocation and enjoyed many years playing drums with various local bands, thinking I was destined to be a rock star. After taking a photography class as an elective in college, I traded in my drumsticks for a camera and graduated from ArtCenter College of Design.

I've lived and worked in some of the coolest cities in the US - New York, Seattle, San Francisco, Los Angeles, and Chicago. I'm currently settled in the Minneapolis area, where I spend my free time watching my youngest daughter grow up.

https://www.robertolding.com
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